What do women want out of life? More pleasure in the bedroom, for one. Not to mention, for their sexual partners to understand exactly how to provide that. Now, we know what you're probably wondering: But exactly how can I give my partner more orgasms if I don't know where to start? Fortunately, you've come to the right place. We here at Rebel Circus recently scoured through endless Reddit forums to provide you with the top NSFW secrets women want men to be aware of when it comes to their pleasure. The top priority on the list? For fellas to commit to one speed for at least 30 seconds. Read on below for more.
User “Dressed_in_flannel.” "Don't worry about it too much if a woman doesn't orgasm during sex with you, especially if it's the the first time you've had sex with her. It can take time to get used to the other person and understand what they like. I may not always orgasm during sex but I do always enjoy it."
Anonymous. "Commit to one speed for a while! Don't alternate between 20mph and 100mph every 30 seconds. It's honestly a consistency thing & we tend to build our arousal more easily when the speed is stable for a bit."
User “Codeversity.” "Every woman is different. Don't get caught up in thinking 'well it worked for ALL my other partners, why isn't it working for her?' Communicate and be patient and creative, and please, unless she is upset, don't get emo and moody if you don't make her come from penetration."
User “Tits_on_a_stick.” "I think we all have fantasies, and if she claims he has none I think they're probably just so dirty she doesn't think you can handle them. Also, we can come, I've heard too many people online claiming otherwise... and we can actually come several times if you do it right."
User “lunatic_minge.” "Understand, fundamentally, that women's bodies need warming up. This isn't about women being more emotional or less sexual, it's biological. Unfortunately pressure for both genders leads to the penis and it's functions being the center of sexual behavior. But try taking ten minutes to touch, taste, play with a vibrator- women can feel horny but not be properly aroused. Get to PiV without warmup and many women won't c*m. Get her to the point where she's breathing in rushes before you ever go there, and it's going to be better for both of you. A flushed, swollen, wet vagina feels far better around your cock than one just wet enough to not be uncomfortable."
User “hardly_quinn.” "Put. A. Trash. Can. In. Your. Bath. Room. We will disguise it, nobody wants to see a bloody tampon- but what do I do if you don't have a trash can? I flush it, that's what, because I'm not about to save it and stash it in my purse or something. Trust me, I don't want you to see it either."
User “thehorrorofspoons.” "Me owning and using toys does not reflect on our relationship or sex life. Sometimes solo is just easier/quicker.” Another user weighed in on the matter, writing: "It's weird when guys view porn of porn ‘perfect' women, but get all insecure about a woman's toy collection. Both of these things happen, people need to get over their insecurities regarding masturbation."
User “Gloggs.” "Places like our neck can get just as visceral of a reaction as any other 'sexual' part of the body. You also have unfettered access to these parts while in public, it's pretty fun to get worked up in public... Thought you'd actually like some women to respond, and not just men talking about how we all like it rough."
User “General_toot_toot.” "Do you like your handjob slow and tight? Fast and loose? Tell us, our hands get tired and we don't know what you do to get off. If you don't tell us what you like, we're both going to be sore."
User “TabaxiTaxi73.” "If you clip your fingernails short it makes fingering -a lot- more enjoyable. If not, you get a sliced up vajayjay, with possible infection. Seems like common sense, but apparently not….” Another added: "Not just short but smooth as well. No hangnails!"
User “Monminet007.” "I'm pretty sure it's not just me, but the orgasm shouldn't be a make it break it for good sex ... like, don't get stuck on the final destination, rather, enjoy the ride kind of thing. Sex for me can be just as (and sometimes more so) enjoyable with no orgasm. Think of it like a massage, you don't have an orgasm while you're getting one (under normal circumstances) but it still feels damn good."
User “Zer0Doxy.” "You in your underwear only on top of me in my underwear only while making out and rubbing up against each other is more likely to get me to o than penetration is. Soft touches and kisses on my neck and back forever and ever, please. Give my nipples mini blowjobs. Lots of forceful licking and soft sucking is A++ material."
User “notfromheresmydear.” "Don't go straight to the clit as foreplay or rub on it furiously. Pay attention to the clit AFTER we are feeling aroused. Stroke the body, kiss, massage the breasts...whatever. Don't dive straight to the V-Spot. Pressing hard on the clit without her being turned on beforehand, is like getting your balls squeezed. It hurts. But getting clit rubbed while feeling horny feels really great"
User “billierubencamgirl.” "Your fingers make a terrible substitute for a dick. Do not use them like one. Use them to massage, not to ram in and out of us.” Another user added: "Yes, and massage the top on the inside. It's basically the other end of the clit."
User “AGirlNamedEleven.” "The sh*t that worked on your ex will not work on all women!!! I had a guy who wouldn't stop awkwardly fingering the backs of my knees. Sure, some women love that, but PAY ATTENTION TO OUR REACTIONS. If you don't, I'll eventually just tell you that I don't like it, but that kills the mood a little."
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