Woman Share The Reasons They’ve Stopped Having Sex With The Husbands They Love Due To Loss Of Libido

One out of every five marriages currently struggles with a lack of sexual attraction in the bedroom. Despite what some may think, there are many wives who still love their husbands but just can’t see themselves having sex with them. In fact, they lost all their libidos. So, what happened to these once-fiery marriages? What make women lose their libidos and stop having sex? Rebel Circus uncovered a number of confessions that answer what happened to some sexless wives…Are you a woman that deals with the loss of your libido? Let us know how you're dealing with it in the comments section below.

Redditor Lazylove Had A Lot To Confess About What’s Happened To Her Libido. “We’ve been married for 5 years, and it used to be so hot between us, up until I had our first child. At first I just chalked it up to fatigue from nursing, and keeping up with a fast growing child. Then we had our second child before I could really begin to worry that it might be something more. Now I have no desire to initiate, encourage, or even comply with my husband,” she wrote. “I can’t figure out why this is happening. I don’t want to be romanced, or any foreplay.”

Another Wife Said It Had Everything To Do With Kids. User DivinelyMinely wrote, “Completely lost my libido during the early parenting years. I was 'touched out.' I had hands on me all day from people needing something: babies needing to nurse or toddlers wanting to cuddle before nap time and so on. It made it very difficult to appreciate my husband's intimacy as different than my kids' neediness.”

It Can Also Be Self-Esteem That Kills Libido. SuperSimoholic said, “I wouldn't say I have no interest in sex, but I have depression and a lot of the time I don't feel 'sexy'...Keep in mind, this has NOTHING to do with my partner. He is the most supportive person in the world and never holds it against me, but in the last 8 years my mental and physical health has declined and I've put on weight, and he's only gotten more attractive and I just feel disgusting.”

The Mind Is Willing But The Flesh Is Soft And Squishy. “We have other priorities. We have kids to take care of and demanding jobs. One may be in the mood and the other is completely exhausted,” wrote another Redditor spouse.

This One Is Painful. Aviary83 has said she was married three times, with her first two marriages turning sexless after a year or so. Her third, not so much. “Turns out your libido doesn't take a nose dive when you're actually happy in a relationship,” she mused.

Age Did It For Her. TrifectaLoser said, “After menopause comes clitoral atrophy. Becomes almost impossible to orgasm. When sex is no longer enjoyable, it's just annoying.”

Hormones Are Definitely A Recurring Factor. Cookievscupcake wrote, “A new birth control pill caused my libido to crash and burn completely. I literally stopped having sexual thoughts. I still cared about my boyfriend, but felt no attraction to him.”

Then There’s Confessions About What Would Make A Woman Lose Interest In Sex… User PaleMare said that the following things would end up making her lose libido: “Being a dick. Not helping out. Not having empathy. Not taking showers.”

Some Women Just Can’t Have Sex Without Love. Belanda_goreng talked about how her desire disappeared, “I thought it was not about him, honestly, I did. I loved him and wanted to spend my life with this guy. But looking back, I was out of love. It was my body's way of telling me this, but I didn't listen.”

Tragedy Also Makes It Hard To Have Sex. An anonymous Redditor said, “I've lost mine a few times when something earthshatteringly depressing happened in my life, like a big loss or something.”

Anti-Depressants Can Be A Reason, Too. GenJonesMom said, “While on anti-depressants, yes. Hate that sh*t. Even if you get turned on, you can't come.”

Others Said That It Was Because Their Husbands Pushed Them Away. One woman anonymously said, “I kept trying to get him into me and kept making sexual advances. I love my husband, but I gave up. He’s just not sexual anymore.”

Mother Catches Pastor Filming Her Daughter In Changing Room For “His Sexual Stimulation”

Few people ever want to think of what happens when the people who are supposed to be moral leader in a community end up losing all sense of ethics, but it still happens. In some cases, the hypocrisy can lead pastors to having gambling problems or drug problems. In one Arizona town, a pastor’s fall from grace hurt an innocent teenage girl…and wrecked their family. In Buckeye, a youth pastor has just been arrested for videotaping a young teen girl who was changing in a department store dressing room. Here’s the story, straight from the police blotter and local news reporters.What are your thoughts on this story? Let us know in the comments section below

One Day, A Mother And Her 14-Year-Old Daughter Went Out Shopping. They had gone to a local department store in Arizona for clothing. All should have been good at the Bealls Outlet Store, except for the fact that a creep was nearby.

As The Teen Began To Try On Clothing, Things Got Weird. The mom began to notice a strange man lingering around the dressing rooms.

This Was Odd, Since It Was A Teen’s Dressing Room. And he clearly wasn’t a teen, and it didn’t seem like he was there with a child of his own.

She Then Saw Him Whip Out His Phone… He then slid it under the door of the dressing room.

As Any Normal Mom Would, She Raised Hell. According to official reports, she caught him in the act and demanded his cell phone. He gave it to her. She saw footage of her daughter on the phone.

The Mom Then Called The Police. She handed the pastor’s phone over to police immediately, and it was clear that he was trying to record the teenager changing.

Astonishingly, The Creep Actually Admitted To Police That He Was Recording Her. He also added that he was planning to view the video for sexual stimulation.

The Phone Is Still Confiscated. It will remain in police possession until his court dates are done.

The Creep’s Name Is Christopher Santos, And He’s 31 Years Old. As of right now, he’s still currently employed at Grace Fellowship Church as a children’s pastor. He has been working there for 3 years.

Many Of His Students Were The Victim’s Age. Most of his pupils are 13 to 17 years old in age, and he had admitted to being put in charge of them overnight. Police are going to be seeing if any children have been recorded.

Grace Fellowship Church Has Given A Statement. Senior pastor Jon Brecke said, “As a church we are shocked and disheartened over the news and allegations of our youth pastor. We do not condone his behavior and are beyond saddened first and foremost for the victim. We also hurt for his family, the youth and parents, and all the people who attend our church. We hope for truth and justice in this situation. Above all, we pray Jesus will redeem this hurt and bring healing to all lives and Chris’ life also.”

The Church Has Placed Him On Leave. He’s also no longer allowed on the church’s campus. However, he’s not fired.

He Was Booked Into The Maricopa County Sheriff’s Office Jail. He faces two charges: voyeurism and surreptitious recording.

Both Charges Are Class 5 Felonies. The state of Arizona will also most likely make him sign up on the sex offender registry.

Go Mom! The teen is doing alright - and had no idea she was being recorded until her mom told her. If it wasn’t for mom’s awesome action, she may have been a victim of this creep.

Women Open Up About What Happens To Their Sex Drive When They’re Pregnant

Not many of us think about a woman's sex drive while she's pregnant - but she sure does, and we assume her partner does too. When a woman becomes pregnant, that doesn't mean that her sex drive disappears and is replaced by her growing baby bump. In fact, the sex drive of a woman experiencing pregnancy can even become much higher than usual. Either way, unless you've experienced it yourself, it's a bit hard to really explain. Luckily for us, plenty of women have revealed what happened to their sex drive when they became pregnant. Here, we take a look at what they had to say. What do you think of a woman's sex drive during pregnancy? Let us know in the comments section below.

Drive. If you're researching this sex drive topic in pregnancy women, you'll see that a lot of women out there are a bit confused at just how much sex they're craving. Are they supposed to be feeling more maternal than turned on? Well, a higher sex drive during pregnancy is quite natural, and very common. Though there are plenty of reasons why you might turn sex down, even if you're experiencing this higher drive.

TodaysParent. According to Today's Parent, there are a few reasons why pregnant women will want more sex, or no sex at all. They range from biological reasons, personal reasons, and practical reasons. Plus, the husbands involved might not be as driven at times … but also in the mood when she isn't.

Jenny. A woman known as Jenny in the Today's Parent piece, though it isn't her real name, says that "from second trimester right up until delivery, I’ve never wanted sex more.” Jenny explains that she would wake up in the middle of the night craving some sex. She calls it "crazy." We call it normal!

Jenny 2. This woman also revealed that she didn't really have any self-consciousness issues during her high sex drive pregnancy. While many women notice the "flaws" of pregnancy, Jenny (and many like her we're sure) has embraced it. She did have one drawback though. Her vagina was more sensitive during intercourse, leading to some discomfort.

Hormones. The reason why Jenny and other pregnant women out there have such high sex drives is because of their constantly fluctuating hormones. It's quite different for all women, with some saying they've craved sex leading right up to their delivery date - which brings us to another pregnancy sex topic.

Labor. Some believe that sex can induce labor - well, good sex, that is. An orgasm involves rhythmical contractions and smooths the genitalia muscles. So, if you can get off around your due date, you might induce labor. There's no "firm evidence," according to OB/GYN Doug Black of Ottawa, that sex can induce labor, but it sure is a fun thing to try out.

Bleeding. Black also explains that bleeding can occur during pregnancy sex. Considering the discomfort or fatigue an expecting mother can experience during sex, it isn't hard to imagine blood and bleeding getting involved. Blood is clearly not a great sign, but it can also lead to placenta previa - a condition that prematurely opens the cervix, allowing placenta to leak. If this happens, stop having sex.

Not in the mood. If you aren't in the mood, make sure to properly communicate this with your partner. Pregnancy, though is mostly your experience, should be a special bonding time for partners. Psychologist Anu Sharma-Niwa tells Today's Parents that there needs to be another level of intimacy shared with couples if sex is off the table.

Isolation. If you're not in the mood for sex, your partner could start to feel isolated. Instead of allowing this isolation to occur, take part in other intimate practices, such as cuddling and/or kissing, while also "just finding time to talk about the mixed bag of emotions that comes with this transition into parenthood.”

Self. Sometimes your sex drive is too much for your partner. If this is true, there's no reason why a sex toy and some alone time wouldn't be able to quench your thirst, so to say. This might also be a good option for women/couples afraid that pregnancy sex could have a negative effect on the pregnancy and affect the growing baby too.

Risk. Pregnancy sex is generally safe, according to countless efforts. There are some case-to-case situations that put some women at a higher risk for complications, including miscarriage and bleeding, though. Your OB-GYN can help you figure out if pregnancy sex is safe for you - which, again, it most likely is.

Impulses. Perhaps the weirdest part of your elevated sex drive is that you might not be in total control of your sexual impulses. This can either be quite exciting for your partner, or just as confusing for them as it is you. That's why some basic, open communication should be ever-present. Plus, you'll be talking about having sex, which is a great topic.

Mary. According to a Rebel Circus reader named Mary (not her real name), pregnancy sex made her into a kinkier lover. She says that she explored a number of sex positions with her husband, and ventured into some fetish play as well. Can you say sexy, pregnant nurse? Her husband sure did!

Mary 2. "Role-play became a big part of our sex life when I was pregnant because it allowed me to enjoy my 'new' body," she said. There are plenty of ways to enjoy pregnancy sex, but we think that Mary has definitely embraced it all very well. There are women out there that don't want to have sex while pregnant, but it is very safe and nothing to shy away from.

You. If you've been pregnant before, what was your sex drive like? Were you wanting it all of the time or were you self-conscious? Surely your hormones were running wild, so let us know if that affected the bedroom. Take to the comments section below to get this conversation started.

Oral Sex Can Reduce Heart Disease In Women

If you didn’t have any other reason to ask your man to go down on you before, science has given you an awesome way to tell your guy why oral is a great thing for the both of you. According to a new study done by researchers, getting oral sex may be good for women’s heart health, according to Latina, Cosmopolitan, and Maxim. Here’s the scoop on the study as well a a little extra information.What do you think of oral sex reducing heart disease in women? Do you believe it to be true? Let us know what you think of this in the comments section below.

The Research Team Was Associated With The State University Of New York. They had decided to figure out what the real benefits of getting and giving cunnilingus are. And, they have great news for people who enjoy both giving and getting oral sex…

Oral Sex Releases Hormones Like Oxytocin And DHEA. Oxytocin, as you may know, is a bonding hormone that makes a person feel like they’re falling in love. DHEA is a compound that has been linked to a reduced risk of certain kinds of cancers and heart disease. In other words, giving your girl oral may make her fall in love with you more rapidly - and it may help her live longer.

Worried About Her Having A Headache? The cool thing about getting oral sex is that the same endorphins that are released during it also have added perks that most people don’t know about. Aside from making you feel happy and in love, these same endorphins can help banish headaches and regulate your sleep cycle.

And It Makes Him Feel Closer To You. According to one researcher, oral sex tends to be more intimate an act than penetrative sex. It allows guys to “let themselves go” when they’re with a woman - and sometimes, they just can’t do that during regular old P in V.

Did We Mention That He Gets A Protein Shot, Too? We often joke about women getting a protein shot from swallowing semen, but the same can be said about men who swallow female ejaculate. If guys can say that women should give head because of the protein boost, girls should be able to say the same thing.

Both Partners Also Show Less Signs Of Depression. Oxytocin and endorphin boosts are incredibly powerful when it comes to combatting signs of depression. The same could probably be said for knowing that you’re getting a little bit of action and are satisfying your partner.

Oral Sex Leads To Awesome Orgasms. It’s not a health benefit in and of itself, but having regular orgasms has been shown to lower blood pressure, boost mood, and helps reduce the chances of vaginal atrophy. Apparently, when it comes to our sex equipment, it really is a “use it or lose it” kind of deal.

And, An Increase In Oral Sex Has Been Linked To Better Communication Overall. This makes sense if you think about it. After all, it takes a lot of communication to get oral sex routines down pat with each partner. So if you’re having trouble connecting, start getting oral with one another.

Other Studies Have Shown That Frequent Oral Sex Can Help Both Men And Women Look Younger. Whether it’s just the after-orgasm glow or the compounds that they receive from actually swallowing semen or female ejaculate remains to be seen. But, studies have suggested that you can look as much as 10 years younger.